… No, really. I love to move. I don’t move often, and I love the fact that we found a place where we can put our roots down for a while. But the act of moving, for me, is an interesting and even cathartic experience. It’s one of the few times when you have an easy to excuse to get rid of the old and bring in the new. It can be an emotional process, because when you begin to go through things, you silently evaluate your life. How far you’ve come, how you’ve changed, what to keep and what to throw away – both physically and emotionally. Moving gives you the unique opportunity to revisit your past while gaining a fresh perspective and a fresh start.
It’s amazing to me how many items I have that I don’t need or even want – and that’s strange because I really don’t like shopping. It’s always the little stuff, stuff that “doesn’t take up any room, so I might as well keep it” that tends to add up. As a writer, I can only feel creative when everything is in its own “home”, with no trinkets hanging around in random places. And, of course, in addition to writing I’m an organizer (always nice to get out and move from time to time), and I dislike clutter. To support my lifestyle and stay sane I try not to buy too much of the little stuff, and to give away unused gifts without guilt – and I have to say, this made moving a lot easier.
Here are some things that really helped me during this move, tips that you may benefit from whether or not you’re moving:
1. Buy an item, purge an item. When I buy a fun, casual piece of clothing, I have a rule: for each piece of clothing I buy, I have to give one away. An eye for an eye, only with clothes. This way, my closet is always current and filled with things I actually wear.
2. If someone else will enjoy it more than you, give it away. If you have a beautiful sweater you’ve only worn once in the last year, assume that there’s someone out there who will wear it a bit more often than that. Yes, it’s a beautiful sweater; that doesn’t mean you need to keep it in the back of your closet. Give it a new life!
3. Do away with “someday”. You know what I mean – “I’ll use this olive-stuffer someday, so I’ll keep it.” Your olive stuffer is now yet another item crammed into a kitchen drawer, taking up valuable space. Toss it. “Someday, I’ll wear this sequined dress to the opera.” Never been to the opera? It’s safe to say that space in your close would be better off filled with a simple cute dress that you’ll actually wear.
4. Organize before you move. Moving is sooo much nicer when you know what’s in each box. If you move in organized, you’ll be more likely to stay that way. Moving is difficult enough without having to sort through everything. Go area by area, take everything out, and ask yourself what items you really want to take with you and which can go. Once you’re done making your Give Away/Throw Away piles, you can begin to sort and make it look nice inside each moving box. Keep in mind that when you unpack, you’ll probably do some more purging. Purging is good. I know it doesn’t always feel that way at the time, but space is nicer than crammed closets and shelves.
Okay, that’s all for today. Happy weekend!